Alesya Kaf (@kafelnikova_a)
We see movies in which people are represented as being in love who never talk with one another, who fall into bed without ever discussing their bodies, their sexual needs, their likes and dislikes. Indeed, the message received from the mass media is that knowledge makes love less compelling; that it is ignorance that gives love its erotic and transgressive edge. These messages are often brought to us by profiteering producers who have no clue about the art of loving, who substitute their mystified visions because they do not really know how to genuinely portray loving interaction…
— “all about love: New Visions” by bell hooks
ADHD is not quirky
Depression is not aesthetic
Anxiety is not cute
Self harm is not cool
Anorexia is not pretty
OCD is not funny
